Comments on: Heartache http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/ Sun, 27 Nov 2011 20:53:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-145 feyma Mon, 16 Aug 2010 02:50:08 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-145 Hi Roselyn - Wow, what a coincidence. It is really sad to have people like these in the family. They don't even have the good attitude to say thank you for sending them to good school and giving them the food to eat and the place to lived. Very rude nieces. Really I just hope that none of them sells themselves just to earn a living. Oh well, I'm over that we moved on and just hope that no other families are scammed by other members of their families too. I'm just glad that we opened our eyes now and don't get scammed by them again and the rest of the family. It's really a sad situations sometimes here in the Philippines. Good luck to you and your family. Take care! Hi Roselyn – Wow, what a coincidence. It is really sad to have people like these in the family. They don’t even have the good attitude to say thank you for sending them to good school and giving them the food to eat and the place to lived. Very rude nieces. Really I just hope that none of them sells themselves just to earn a living.

Oh well, I’m over that we moved on and just hope that no other families are scammed by other members of their families too. I’m just glad that we opened our eyes now and don’t get scammed by them again and the rest of the family. It’s really a sad situations sometimes here in the Philippines.

Good luck to you and your family. Take care!

]]> By: Roselyn http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-143 Roselyn Wed, 11 Aug 2010 15:04:16 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-143 Hi Feyma: Similar situations providing for nieces and nephews, especially with college fees happened to my mother many years ago. Many Filipino individuals unfortunately feel entitlement with a relative in the U.S. who will help them. They go to school early on, then go with the barkada, start families without resources, drop out of school, and continue to asks for monetary assistance. At my mother's funeral, not one of these nieces and nephews helped out. They attended the funeral, but all wanted for the helpers to wait on them. They added to the expenses for the funeral as they had a need for lodging, food, and asked for travel expenses. It is a dissappointing scenario in the Philippines, when all around examples of poverty are seen. My mother hoped that these young people would do something with their lives and help their families as well. (My parents retired in the Philippines.) It was hard on my mother (psychologically) as she was a very hardworking woman and hoped for the best for her family members. Hi Feyma: Similar situations providing for nieces and nephews, especially with college fees happened to my mother many years ago. Many Filipino individuals unfortunately feel entitlement with a relative in the U.S. who will help them. They go to school early on, then go with the barkada, start families without resources, drop out of school, and continue to asks for monetary assistance. At my mother’s funeral, not one of these nieces and nephews helped out. They attended the funeral, but all wanted for the helpers to wait on them. They added to the expenses for the funeral as they had a need for lodging, food, and asked for travel expenses. It is a dissappointing scenario in the Philippines, when all around examples of poverty are seen. My mother hoped that these young people would do something with their lives and help their families as well. (My parents retired in the Philippines.) It was hard on my mother (psychologically) as she was a very hardworking woman and hoped for the best for her family members.

]]> By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-139 feyma Fri, 30 Jul 2010 06:36:24 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-139 Hi peterjoy - I know what you mean. A lot of the girls nowadays just don't want to be responsible. They really want to blamed the people that helped them. It's really a sad situation for us. That niece of mine stayed with us since almost birth but now she didn't even say thank you to the people that helped her, instead she blamed all of us that helped her. She made her choice and she's pretending to be happy. Really at the end, Me and Bob also made the decision to let go of those people that we loved and don't love us in returned. We don't want to be used anymore. Enough is enough. We moved on. Good to see you again. Thank you for always reading our site. Take care! Hi peterjoy – I know what you mean. A lot of the girls nowadays just don’t want to be responsible. They really want to blamed the people that helped them. It’s really a sad situation for us. That niece of mine stayed with us since almost birth but now she didn’t even say thank you to the people that helped her, instead she blamed all of us that helped her. She made her choice and she’s pretending to be happy. Really at the end, Me and Bob also made the decision to let go of those people that we loved and don’t love us in returned. We don’t want to be used anymore. Enough is enough. We moved on.

Good to see you again. Thank you for always reading our site.

Take care!

]]> By: peterjoy http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-132 peterjoy Wed, 26 May 2010 00:28:04 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-132 yes i know how u feel as my wifes sisters girl was just 16 and was preg i dontknow what happend with her baby or what but it is so sad to see girls that are not working but yet not over school fulling preg god help them thanks for a good webe page god bless to u all here from peter martin yes i know how u feel as my wifes sisters girl was just 16 and was preg i dontknow what happend with her baby or what but it is so sad to see girls that are not working but yet not over school fulling preg god help them thanks for a good webe page god bless to u all here

from peter martin

]]> By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-17 feyma Sat, 11 Aug 2007 06:04:05 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-17 Hi Dee - I really hope for the best for my niece and the baby. I really felt sorry for the baby. I just hope that the father of the baby will be there always. I hope the guy will send her back to school. I doubt on that. He wants us to pay for that when she came back to work for us. Anyway, thank you for your nice thoughts for us. I really appreciate very much. Hi Dee – I really hope for the best for my niece and the baby. I really felt sorry for the baby. I just hope that the father of the baby will be there always. I hope the guy will send her back to school. I doubt on that. He wants us to pay for that when she came back to work for us.

Anyway, thank you for your nice thoughts for us. I really appreciate very much.

]]> By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-16 feyma Sat, 11 Aug 2007 05:59:44 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-16 Hi Glenda - Thank you for the support. Your there when she made the choices. You even advice her to think hard because it's hard to find job here in the Philippines. She thought that her best friends would be there all the way. You and I know, she told us that the best friends she was referring too dump her after a week away from us. She has no money to hang out with them anymore. What a wonderful friends she had. Don't you think? Hi Glenda – Thank you for the support. Your there when she made the choices. You even advice her to think hard because it’s hard to find job here in the Philippines. She thought that her best friends would be there all the way. You and I know, she told us that the best friends she was referring too dump her after a week away from us. She has no money to hang out with them anymore. What a wonderful friends she had. Don’t you think?

]]> By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-18 feyma Sat, 11 Aug 2007 05:55:11 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-18 Hi Luanne - I already can see that she's changing when she came back. She was gone for over a year, didn't see her even once at that time. I think when she came back she still had in mind that everything will just be the same as before. It's not gonna be like that anymore. She will boss around my people especially our helper. Bob and I just wanted to help her so that her and the baby can have good future. She take it in a negative way. Oh, well it's her life. Bahala siya. Hi Luanne – I already can see that she’s changing when she came back. She was gone for over a year, didn’t see her even once at that time. I think when she came back she still had in mind that everything will just be the same as before. It’s not gonna be like that anymore. She will boss around my people especially our helper.

Bob and I just wanted to help her so that her and the baby can have good future. She take it in a negative way. Oh, well it’s her life. Bahala siya.

]]> By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-20 feyma Sat, 11 Aug 2007 05:42:36 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-20 Hi Mahdy- Good that you told your sister and your niece what you wanted. Yeah on your brother that was a sickness that he needs help to get rid of. You can't really force him to study. We really gave my niece some good choices, but she chose the wrong one though. We can't be responsible for that. She knows now that I'm not gonna be here always to lend a hand. Hope your niece will really finish school. It's hard even here in the Philippines to find job. Good luck to you. Thank you for your nice comment. Hi Mahdy- Good that you told your sister and your niece what you wanted. Yeah on your brother that was a sickness that he needs help to get rid of. You can’t really force him to study.

We really gave my niece some good choices, but she chose the wrong one though. We can’t be responsible for that. She knows now that I’m not gonna be here always to lend a hand.

Hope your niece will really finish school. It’s hard even here in the Philippines to find job.

Good luck to you. Thank you for your nice comment.

]]> By: feyma http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-19 feyma Sat, 11 Aug 2007 03:32:21 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-19 Hi Pete- Honestly,Bob and I wonder that too. I told my niece at one time why not use any birth control stuff? She's so irresponsible. She's mad at me for telling her that. She blames us for what happen to her, but her and my family knows that everything was her chices. Bob gave her so many options though. Oh, well she's out in my life now. I think I let go of her now. Thanks for your comment Pete. I appreciate very much. Thanks for the support. Hi Pete- Honestly,Bob and I wonder that too. I told my niece at one time why not use any birth control stuff? She’s so irresponsible. She’s mad at me for telling her that. She blames us for what happen to her, but her and my family knows that everything was her chices. Bob gave her so many options though. Oh, well she’s out in my life now. I think I let go of her now.

Thanks for your comment Pete. I appreciate very much. Thanks for the support.

]]> By: Dee http://feymamartin.com/blog/2007/07/heartache/comment-page-1/#comment-11 Dee Fri, 10 Aug 2007 10:50:12 +0000 http://feymamartin.com/blog/?p=22#comment-11 this is a very difficult situation for any person...having a child whether you are married or not is a life altering experience for the mother...I hope the situation will get better than worse for all those involved this is a very difficult situation for any person…having a child whether you are married or not is a life altering experience for the mother…I hope the situation will get better than worse for all those involved

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