A good chat with a friend

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A few days ago Bob, myself and a friend were sitting on our porch watching the kids play basketball. We were talking about the party that we just attended a few days back. With that chat we touched on a topic about our kids behavior now compared to when we were kids. Like we always said our kids growing up now have an easier life compared to the life we had back then. Our conversation then went on to the girls before and now. I’m meaning to say about the girls that was brought up way before the internet came. We both made ourselves and our families as a sample. Like me and that friend were both brought up in the farm. We are happy and … [Read more...]

A $1000 to live in the Philippines?

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“Feyma can I make it to live in the Philippines for just a $1000?” I’ve been asked this questions through emails more than a dozen times. Questions from a foreigner that wanting to retire here. Before answering the questions, I have to ask some questions first. Are you single? No family here to support, I mean a lady or a lady with kid?  You have to tell me where do you want to live. Expenses here really varies from place to place. I answered the question not on how he should spend the money, but what can he spend on the basic needs here in the Philippines particularly here in Davao City. A single guy: A 1000 bucks in … [Read more...]

Dear Feyma: “I want to retire there in the RP”

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I will share with you an email from somebody who is wanting to retire here but because of the bad economy all over the world she has to put the thinking of retirement on hold and try to work harder and longer. I’m pretty sure a lot of our readers can relate to this. “Dear Feyma, how are you? I am an avid reader of your site for quite sometime now. I am a Filipina living in North America for over 15 years now. We have a few things in common. I am a little older than you. My husband will be turning 53 next year. I wanted to retire there, but my husband wants to wait until he is retiring from work and wants to saved ore money for us … [Read more...]

The poor here compared to the poor in the West!

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While watching TV on our cable channels, one of the topics on the show was how the poor people live in America. So of course I was fascinated by it. Hey, vast majority of the people in the Philippines live below the poverty line. So the host of the show was saying that they will tell how the people lived there in the USA after the commercial. So I was so intrigued and hooked to the TV. The guest host said that he is sick of the poor people in America, they are whining that they are really poor. But if you go see their houses they will have a pretty descent house, flat screen TV, microwave oven, stove, washer & dryer, dishwasher, cable TV, … [Read more...]

Flooding in Davao City

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For the past few days now, it’s been raining heavily here in Davao City during night time. Last week there was bad flooding here in the city. We didn’t even know that it was bad until the next morning. We usually go to bed early because I would wake up the next morning so early. Well, I was talking to my sister, and her husband said something and I overheard when he said that their was a big flooding somewhere in Matina and some people were killed and missing. I told my sister that I did not watch TV yet, but saw on Facebook about a flooding. It was too early for people to post something. But the kids were preparing for school I … [Read more...]

Homeless couples

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A few months ago I was having a meeting set at one of the condo units here near SM. Before the person that I had meeting with arrived, while my nephew was looking for a space to parked our vehicle, I was standing outside the building on the near walkway. I was standing at the sidewalk and texting. I noticed a cart (kariton) loaded with folded empty boxes. I can hear people talking. So I looked at the other side of the kariton, I saw 4 people eating lunch. I smiled at them and said hi. I tried not to looked at the food, I could tell that the couple were embarrassed that I saw the food they have. Just to make them comfortable, I moved a bit … [Read more...]

Coupons everyone?

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Have you guys tried watching the show called Extreme Couponing on The Learning Channel? We’ve been watching this show for a few months now. It really got me interested and got me thinking. To be totally honest if we still lived in the States I’m pretty sure I will do some couponing but not as good as this people on the show. I’m not even going to do a third of what they are doing. They really are good at it. I’m really impressed and in awe of them. Wishing though that lots of people will do the same. This show is also a big hit for my kids. I wonder if there is a time that the Philippines will use coupons for something … [Read more...]

Dear Feyma “Thanks for listening”

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It’s been awhile since I have posted a Dear Feyma letter  here. I just didn’t go through a lot of my emails yet. But I had this email that caught my attention. “Dear Feyma, I am a Pinay. An OFW working in the Middle East. I just got back from a month of vacation there in our beautiful country, I want to work extra hard right now to earn as much as I could. Then I want to retire there later. I have been supporting my family there ever since working here. I wanted to stop supporting my family, but I can’t tell them that. I just don’t have the face to tell them. Since the war started here in the Middle East, I have … [Read more...]

A good seminar!

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Two days ago Bob had a seminar here at our house. Supposed to be it should be held at one of the function rooms at K1. Needless to say K1 didn't even know we existed when we went there the day before to check everything out. Luckily Bob decided to checked it out before the seminar. It would be embarrassing going there and we are not booked. My goodness I called them up a month ago to booked the seminar. I told them and explained to them what room I want. They said okay. Luckily no one was booked on the date that we said. So that thing was solve. Then Bob ask them if we could try to hooked up his laptop to their plasma TV? They said sure, … [Read more...]